When should you introduce your family to the person you're dating? What should you do if your friend always hooks up with your friends whenever you go out? Should you continue dating a guy who hasn't introduced you to his parents after 4 years of dating?
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If his parents are horrible then I get him saving her from them and saving his old parents the stress of a meeting. As long as he was showing me were real like I know everyone else in his life and we live together and he's serious about getting engaged I wouldn't care much about meeting his old parents.
Girl in yellow, really? Come on now! Your white “BF” is either gay, has a record, has a wife and kids, or a killer on the loose. It’s got to be any of these 4 options. Unfortunately it’s 4 years you’d never have back. Better not make it 5!
27 and that beautiful.. she is wasting her good child bearing and fun having strongest years with a man that won't put his foot down to his parents and Love Her no matter what racist attitude they have. ...welp. she is getting slept with, but not Loved.
By the age of 39, one should have realised his principles an virtues to follow to. The guy must have been decisive. If he really loves you, he could have introduced you already. IF THERE'S A WILL, THERE'S A WAY
Wendy!! But you can't make somebody meet someone they don't want to meet. I'm married to a white, and if his parents didn't want to meet me, my husband surely wouldn't make them. He would cut ties with his parents! It would then be his parents' loss because they would miss the wedding and seeing their future grandchildren.
If you take that poor girl to your parents' house without them wanting her there, it will be pure torture for everyone!
Wendy, I love you, but sometimes your advice is cray cray lol.
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You're cray cray for marrying someone supported by White supremacy.Also you're christian and unequally yoked.You should know that there's no equality, and there'll never be any because whites like the one you married doesn't want equality with the black race.If you were smart and not selfish you would realize that your white's upliftment is you and every black person's down fall.It's legit you swirlers are nuts and selfish AF.
The last girl has trouble on her hands if she doesn't dump him. I had a white boss and his wife is black. Even though they are married with kids, his parents have never met their grandchildren because they are racist scummy shits. It has created a lot of strife in their relationship. His parents pretend that his children do not exist. Only God can change such wicked hearts, so she should move on. It's one thing if he introduced her to them and they still won't accept her, but it's another thing that he doesn't think it's that big of a deal, so doesn't even try to introduce her.
Ms Beautiful 27, what the hell are u thinking? don't u look in the mirror everyday? you're pretty that man don't even deserve to see your draws much less take them off for 4 yrs!! Let him loose and go get a man that is worthy of you god damnit!!! Don't even waste another minute with him and his racist parents. Kmt....
I've been with my partner for 4 years we've been engaged for 3 and a half of those years, i've met his mum and dad, i love them, they love me, he's met my parents and they love him however both sets of parents have not met each other yet - i've told him several times they need to but still haven't, what do i do i don't want our wedding day to be when they finally meet each other?!
Brittany seems like a sweet woman who could do with a crash course in self esteem. I also think the boyfriend is not being entirely honest with her and likely married, separated or not in any position to commit. Not introducing her to his parents is a red flag bc he is essentially saying 'this relationship will not go anywhere'. She clearly wants more from him so why is she hanging around ?
I'm Latina and my husband is black, my mom has never aprove, we been married for almost 10 years on November 17 we have two boys ages 2 and 4 he will be 5 on October and my mom still hasn't changed her mind. last time she scene us was last Halloween that's because one of my sister's invited us over. I understand why she doesn't want to talk to me but why not have a relationship with the kids it's just heart breaking.
Maria Luv honestly it's better that she not have a relationship with any of you cause how can you love/accept the kids but not their father. I say you are better off without her. Don't let her negativity rub off on your precious kids.
People need to calm down, and remember everyone sometimes says stupid things. The reason why people like Wendy is because she is comfortable on her show she makes people feel like a member of a family of sorts. When your with your friends or family you sometimes say things that you didn't mean or came out the wrong way. What people should think about is the persons intent instead of their words. Wendy didn't have malious behind what she had said it just was interpreted in a way that didn't translate well.
I agree wit Wendy on that last situation. I didn't even see it like that initially. I know dating interracially can be very challenging in different regards(that being 1 of them), but this is what you have to prepare for if you knowingly get in that situation. Because a lot of people out here are racist...and most of them are not racist upfront, but behind your back. They will smile in your face, and talk crazy about you behind close doors. Heck, some even will still have sex with you and/or be with you, and still hate you and your kind. Idk why, but it's true, sadly. So you never know. I wish her the best in that situation.
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