Here are the main signs of fake nice people who you need to avoid. Trying to tell the difference between someone who is genuinely nice and someone who is faking it, can be as confounding as trying to tell the difference between a work of art and a well-made replica. That’s because some people are really good at masking their true emotions! But, as good as they are, there are still some clues that give away their true personality - and knowing these signs can come in handy.
Pay attention to the signs of fake nice people we highlight in this video, so the next time you encounter someone like this, you can recognize their façade.
Have you ever run into an acquaintance or friend who you haven’t see in ages? And then you embrace each other like you’re the best of friends? Besides the usual “How have you been? I’ve missed you!” pleasantries, has the conversation ever led to something along the lines of “Let’s totally catch up for drinks this weekend!” You may have been the one doing the faking (sadly, even the best of us have done this to get out of an awkward situation), so you would know exactly what I mean when I say that they don’t mean it!
It’s hard to get by without knowing how to be fake nice to be honest, because if we were all always 100 percent honest about our emotions, a lot of us would be screwed. That said, there is a time and a place for this kind of attitude. It’s acceptable to put on an act - if not doing so would seriously screw things up. It’s not acceptable to be a phony when you’re acting that way towards a friend, a loved one, or when you’re just trying to get something you want and hurting others in the process.
We are all self-interested to some degree, but a person who is authentic is the same on the outside as they are on the inside. That’s why it’s important to know the signs of fake nice people who you need to avoid! A fake person expresses attitudes, behaviors, and thoughts that aren't truly their own - just to make themselves seem similar to the target they're trying to influence. These people quickly turn into toxic friends and toxic relationships. Keep an eye out for these kind of people, and make room for more meaningful, genuine relationships in your life.
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Its so true what you re saying, i was a flight attendant and i quit because of that, people around me were too fake, i cant stand it, it depresses me, im allergic to them, i took Prozac for 10years because of this, i simply cant stand them, one thing you forgot to mention is that if by any means you need them to witness for you, they will never, they love power and success so much, and they re jealous and envious. But bravo all you said is true, i know them now by heart.
when I used to make friends in the past, everybody ignored me. now that I avoid people 24/7 all of a sudden people want to be my friend. I have more friends than I used to have 10 yrs ago. its so fucking weird
Thanks good video. I had the shock of my life when I realized my mother's sister was a con, scam artists, conspirator, grifter, fraud, Identity theft fraud. Their whole family were twisted exactly backwards, say one thing do the exact opposite right in front of you!!!! I started to do research on really serious crime. So she is a Machiavellian, master controller, psychopath, Sociopath, Narcissist, neurotic, rescue syndrome, hero homicide complex, deciding life and death issues, white collar organized crime, career criminal 50 years, serial killer. When I was little I called her the Queen of Mean! What is bad really is she Tried to be Evil. Her ambition was to ruin other people's lives. People think well you know NOCD. Or just fake! But seriously these people can be bad to the core Dangerously and Deadly. She was, dead now, a serial Poisoner's, Münchhausen, Münchhausen syndrome by proxy, wife of an equally dangerous supposed Doctor. Three generations of doctors nurses all seriously Criminally Insane.
So everyone get your research done starting with videos like this. Don't be caught off guard for a minute!!! The outside criminals get you hurt and put in hospitals. So they don't get charged with murders they don't kill you. The Inside a hospital has killers ready to murder you to finish you off once your in there. Some doctors are wonderful human beings if they had to catch killers in their hospitals they would have less time to heal people. So patients beware.
I caught the criminals who I disowned, disinherited, disassociated with, and revoked every verbal and written contract with them. But more people need to catch the criminals in their families, without being caught catching criminals by their predators, perpetrators, and assailants. Never tell them you caught them. Murder is just another Felony to them. They are over the life terms limits on Felonies already. So they will try to kill anyone catching them at crime. They can't do another day in prison for topping their crime off with a few murders. I wish I had known this in high school. I could have saved 7 lives in my family plus my own.
that is hypocrite they is no fake people as u saying it.do u know who is Hypocrite he or she shows something else out but inside is something else. And if he speaks he lies. And if he promises something he lies that's the attitude of hypocrites
Oh I've known people like this since I was 8 years old & still counting. From my former stepmother, to her relatives, to various people that I've come into contact with over the years! It's been a virtural HELL!
We are all fake people because no one can survive in society by being always honest (see the movie "The invention of lying"). Why? Because we are dual beings with positive and negative thoughts-emotions that if they are constantly exposed it will bring more harm than good. So if you want to survive learn to be fake as much as you can.
Everyone is fake from time to time. Certain situations call for it. It’s when you’re fake to exploit or bamboozle someone is when it’s a problem. But for all my social anxiety havers and low self esteemers who are trying to build themselves up fake away my friend. Do whatcha gotta do to survive. Do yourself a favor put yourself around people you like.
it is kind of funny calling people fake and using that as your excuse for not having many friends. some people are fake but we are just as fake saying they are mostly fake and that is why we have few friends like it doesnt have anything to do with us, that too is fake.
I had a female boss in a temp role I did a couple of years ago. When she met me for the first time she was so gushing it was embarrassing. I soon learned how fake and nasty she was. She went out of her way to belittle everything I did even infront of customers and other staff. I needed the job (I'm a widow and my son has severe health problems) and being over 60, jobs are very hard to find for people my age group. I ended up getting dragged into something I had nothing to do with (it involved another member of staff) and this woman stitched me up. Thankfully the position came to an end but she put in a bad report about me to the agency I worked for - and all the agencies talk to each other. I would appear to be Persona Non Grata because of this woman and the agencies don't even put me forward for jobs I could do standing on my head. These fake people are horrid and spiteful and cause so much damage to other people.
How does protecting yourself against fake people make you a fake person yourself?
You seem to be a manipulative bitch who's very annoyed that more people will see your real nature thanks to this video!
I hate to mention this, but you keep using the possessive "their" rather than the contraction of they are: "they're." When in doubt, sound it out..." they are fake" stands on its own. "Their fake..." doesn't. Their fake what? Accent, mustache, tits?
I know this is about reading disingenuous people, not grammar, I'm just sayin.'
YOU PEOPLE NEED TO STOP!.
FAKE PEOPLE ARE EVERYWHERE, BUT NOT SO FAKE PEOPLE ALSO SHOW THESE ACTIONS.
BRO....WHICH IS THE FAKE AND WHICH IS GENIOUN CAN BE TOLD BY THEIR BELIEFS AND THEN ACTIONS.
NOT BY THEIR EVERY REACTION.
Most people are fake. 99% of the teenagers are fake, they do not know any better yet. This video comes from such a perspective of righteousness, that it makes me sick. Fake people need compassion, not judgement. And everybody, EVERYBODY has a persona, unless they are Budhha or awakened. So most likely, the people who did this video have also quite a strong ego, and they got very high exploring the weaknesses of others. Personally, righteous people are the worst. Fake people you can spot easily. But the ones who truly believe they are good...those are the ones you truly need to beware, for they are not conscious of themselves.
Very helpful info; I discovered I have a couple of fake friends from your insights, but I don't believe I should dump a friend just because the relationship is found out to be fake. I want to find a way to develop that relationship into an authentic, meaningful one. I see it as having the potential to become a worthwhile relationship! What do you think though?
I've been fake nice to people before but it wasn't intentional, I've had friends who had other friends that I didn't know so when I saw that friend around his other friends that I didn't know and he didn't know my other friends sometimes I wouldn't say anything to them because I didn't want to be awkward and after a while it ruined my friendship with that person so I guess that's an issue I have to sort out with my own level of confidence.
Also I have another friend who I think is fake I hadn't seen this guy for a year because I went off to university so I tried to message him on whatsaspp multiple times not because I want anything out of him I just wanted to know how he's getting on with life and he completely blanked me , reads the message on whatsapp then doesn't respond and this happened 4 or 5 times :(
I believe there is good and bad in everybody...Nice people can be complete jerks and complete jerks have been known to display movements of genuine affection. People consider me to be a nice guy but I myself have been known to fake it just to get by the day, that doesn't mean that I would consider myself the most evil person in the universe, it simply means we are human...
It’s best not to ever have a drink w coworkers/Friends (frenemies) you don’t trust. Listen to your gut. If fake people ask to spend time w you, you can be sure it is because they want information from you or something from you. They are manipulative users. Beware!! Also if they consistently take forever to answer your phone calls or texts, you can be 100% sure your relationship is unimportant and very low priority, contrary to what they tell you. With “friends” like this, who needs enemies?
I have a niece I love her but Oh my God!!!! She is very popular, has lots of friends, popular in facebook everywhere, but she is a horrible person to live day by day, she doesn't care about anyone, she is very cold and selfish, she looks very nice person but when you know closely you see the reality
exactly telling everybody business and trying to look like their better than their other friends. If you talking about your friends to me you definitely talking about me to your friends. Sometimes you have to know people for who they are and treat them accordingly
I'm REAL & I have to admit it was always about me, but that was because I was hurt so badly & NOT ever allowed to say what happened to me by very mean people who made me feel that bad that I wanted to die because they said that it never happened & I took it to heart &......that devastatingly killed me emotionally......NEVER being able to get it out.......only repeating myself over & over & over...... .
Well just ask Green Day!
Ummmm Tom Petty died!
I always talked about the misfortune of others because I happened to be misfortune & would want to help out! But manipulating people.....possibly a church going person may completetly ignore your situation & talk about a more misfortunate one to avoid you entirely........they ignore a needy person who really needs help!
A person who constantly attention & approval is very insecure & number one reason of insecurity is being abused! It could be that they're a control freak which is opposite of a victim who was taught to be insecure by their abuser!
I was raised by narcissistic parents & in a abusive,shit talking neighborhood & I picked up these toxic traits from observing everything in my environment.I was suicidal,I had low self esteem.I hated my life & myself so I left home when I was 15.I improved on my behavior & learnt so much about my mental health that I never knew existed.I had never heard of anxiety or depression before.And I never would have never known that most my life I was suffering from panic attacks,I wasn't just being a drama queen.But thanks to my best friend & her family they gave me the chance I needed to sort myself out.They showed me what unconditional love is & I love them so much.I was also a drug addict & alcoholic well we all were.But as soon as my best friend fell pregnant with my god daughter who's 6 now.I thought I needed to change & to be an example for my best friend & my future God child.I was using heavily & my best friend was doing what I was doing while being pregnant.I tried to stop her & show her it was bad but I can't control her.But I could show her,after my 16th birthday I went to rehab.My best friend was still pregnant.I couldn't believe that all the things I had known weren't true.Things I thought to be okay weren't & all the knowledge I learnt I wish I had known earlier in age & I had wished more people I knew,knew about it to.I
voluntarily went on for another intake,so I doubled my time in Rehab.
The time i spent there I completed sober.Once I had I went off to live on my own,I flatted.I made some horrible decisions that only the power of God could heal.And when I turned 17 he did,some sisters reached out to me & opened my eyes & my heart to another side of life I had never seen before.I lived by the teachings of the church to know God is real & I believe in the faith of Jesus Christ that he is our savior.
No one is perfect only he is.
After I turned 18 I went back to study & I joined an Academy course.It was so much fun & hard & really gave me the training I needed to strengthen & discipline my mind.It was really hard core,I was apart of the only all female team group ever to exist there.At the end our entire platoon won almost all trophys (except 1) & the March out.
And also the tug of war.
I knew people inside who were so hard & tough in the streets but couldn't handle LSV (that's what the academy was called) I was so proud.After that I was 19 I decided to move bk in with my parents & try to rebuild my relationship with them,help them out & heal our broken family.Its been 4 yrs & we've made alot of progress,it's been a rough journey.My parents are still the same but we have healed some wound scars.I just wanted us to leave on good terms before I find a place I can call home & never to bother them again.
I just wanted us to make some good memories before they die because honestly I don't have that many.Most memory's I have of them are destructive & hurtful.But on this life quest of mine I have learned to accept things I can't control & to be happy & grateful even in times are completely dark.
I finally have a place of my own with people i love & love me.
But I got to confess I am fake.
Well I was,well I've done these things & I'm trying to stop,I have alot.Im drug free now have been for 3yrs.
I smoke weed only on my birthdays & some day my mother's death day.
I used to seek council from those closests to me about everyone that used to come to me for advice about there problems for a 2nd opinion.
But sometimes I would tell people what I said about them & who to.
Because Ive had my confidence in trust broken & now I've been training myself to speak confidentially.Because I want to be a Social worker & help people,youth offenders or drug addicts like me.Who have been homeless & jobless before.
I often don't answer calls or messages from people that often pressure me to drink or make me feel bad for the last time I said no.
I also missed large events such as 21st & family reunions.Because I'm dealing with health issues like Thyroid disease,and I was also depressed.I was a 22 yr old living at home with there parents.No job.
That time I was volunteering at a thrift store.And my family always gave me a hard time,They made me feel ugly & useless & I just didn't need that in front of my extended family.
I used to try & please people.Byt it all hust leads to dissapointment.Now I don't have a problem disappointing people.I don't need validation.I appreciate the people in my life & i make an effort to make sure they know they are loved & cared for healthy & emotionally.
Sometimes I talk about myself to much,but that's because I hope to inspire people not impress them.Plus I've learnt from gossiping & shit talkers that if you want to talk about someone talk about yourself or your interests or dreams or goals.
And child the lies omg,sometimes I don't know wtf came over me.
Why,why indeed.But after calling out & realizing what I was doing to myself mainly.I now think about the consequences & how this could effect me or those around me.I still lie like how much I spend.But I don't lie about others,but I had a real issue lieing on myself.Now I really don't care,I'm not ashamed or embarrassed to be openly honest,I practice being truthful by being truthful to myself & to others without being hurtful or out of spite.
If you have to lie to people to be liked than your around the world people.
So yes I was or am a fake person.I have the courage to admit,sometimes you gotta admit your own faults in order to take actions to solutions.If you can't be real about yourself than you don't have the right to tell people who they are,if you first can't first tell who you are.On this road to finding myself I've learnt that we all have similar flaws but only the few will admit to them & only the best will do something about it.
Love & light.
This People tryed not to change the system on a Justicfull way or a Right way! They desiered the things of other people! And didnt Respect the Life of other People! They are not trying to establish a better World! They are trying to take control and to establish there own kingdom which is not based on Justice or the Right way and they even dont have God on there Side! This are Evil People without Justice and its a Evil Empire they are working on!
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