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15 Signs of Fake Nice People Who You Need To Avoid

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Here are the main signs of fake nice people who you need to avoid. Trying to tell the difference between someone who is genuinely nice and someone who is faking it, can be as confounding as trying to tell the difference between a work of art and a well-made replica. That’s because some people are really good at masking their true emotions! But, as good as they are, there are still some clues that give away their true personality - and knowing these signs can come in handy. Pay attention to the signs of fake nice people we highlight in this video, so the next time you encounter someone like this, you can recognize their façade. Have you ever run into an acquaintance or friend who you haven’t see in ages? And then you embrace each other like you’re the best of friends? Besides the usual “How have you been? I’ve missed you!” pleasantries, has the conversation ever led to something along the lines of “Let’s totally catch up for drinks this weekend!” You may have been the one doing the faking (sadly, even the best of us have done this to get out of an awkward situation), so you would know exactly what I mean when I say that they don’t mean it! It’s hard to get by without knowing how to be fake nice to be honest, because if we were all always 100 percent honest about our emotions, a lot of us would be screwed. That said, there is a time and a place for this kind of attitude. It’s acceptable to put on an act - if not doing so would seriously screw things up. It’s not acceptable to be a phony when you’re acting that way towards a friend, a loved one, or when you’re just trying to get something you want and hurting others in the process. We are all self-interested to some degree, but a person who is authentic is the same on the outside as they are on the inside. That’s why it’s important to know the signs of fake nice people who you need to avoid! A fake person expresses attitudes, behaviors, and thoughts that aren't truly their own - just to make themselves seem similar to the target they're trying to influence. These people quickly turn into toxic friends and toxic relationships. Keep an eye out for these kind of people, and make room for more meaningful, genuine relationships in your life. If you enjoyed this video, you may also like: Dealing With Rude People - 15 Communication Tips https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FH_5qRBh5x0 Want To Quit Your Job? 16 Signs You Need To Leave https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32QTs3-H5nc How Restaurants Use Psychology To Make You Spend More Money https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWuEgQmmRQ8 ------------------------------------------------------------------ Subscribe To Our Channel for More Videos Like This! TWITTER: http://www.twitter.com/brainydose FACEBOOK: http://www.facebook.com/brainydose INSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/brainydose WEBSITE: http://www.brainydose.com ------------------------------------------------------------------
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BRAINY DOSE (2 months ago)
Are there any other signs of fake nice people that we missed?
woduhka •-• (7 hours ago)
I wanted to cry for giving someone my chips even though I was so hungry cuz someone took their chips and I'm disappointed in myself
Myriem Jaziri (14 days ago)
Its so true what you re saying, i was a flight attendant and i quit because of that, people around me were too fake, i cant stand it, it depresses me, im allergic to them, i took Prozac for 10years because of this, i simply cant stand them, one thing you forgot to mention is that if by any means you need them to witness for you, they will never, they love power and success so much, and they re jealous and envious. But bravo all you said is true, i know them now by heart.
Rebecca Tampio (15 days ago)
when the person treats you with disrespect when you two are alone, but in the midst of others they treat you with respect to show everyone they are nice and good people.
Kate Glass (17 days ago)
Sharpen up and wake up ! People are complex +Viona Crasto
Baba O'Really (18 days ago)
Male feminists, that's a rape waiting to happen.
Mian Formen (42 minutes ago)
Omg I belong... Need to change😮
Gavinough Studios (2 hours ago)
Wow... when you realize your a fake friend.
Katey Jennel (3 hours ago)
When someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time
Infinite Possibilities (7 hours ago)
It made me realize that I was being fake
macdaddy mandalorian (8 hours ago)
All of Hollywood
Cord Cole (12 hours ago)
Thanks bro
MyKittkat (12 hours ago)
Sounds like you’re confusing fake ness with insecurities.
ili n (13 hours ago)
omg its horrible how sth we’re treated like this
Chuckie Gravesfield (14 hours ago)
when I used to make friends in the past, everybody ignored me. now that I avoid people 24/7 all of a sudden people want to be my friend. I have more friends than I used to have 10 yrs ago. its so fucking weird
Maria Gu (19 hours ago)
Avoid fake people, they break your life, your self confidence and your happiness
Grace Serena Christie (21 hours ago)
Thanks good video. I had the shock of my life when I realized my mother's sister was a con, scam artists, conspirator, grifter, fraud, Identity theft fraud. Their whole family were twisted exactly backwards, say one thing do the exact opposite right in front of you!!!! I started to do research on really serious crime. So she is a Machiavellian, master controller, psychopath, Sociopath, Narcissist, neurotic, rescue syndrome, hero homicide complex, deciding life and death issues, white collar organized crime, career criminal 50 years, serial killer. When I was little I called her the Queen of Mean! What is bad really is she Tried to be Evil. Her ambition was to ruin other people's lives. People think well you know NOCD. Or just fake! But seriously these people can be bad to the core Dangerously and Deadly. She was, dead now, a serial Poisoner's, Münchhausen, Münchhausen syndrome by proxy, wife of an equally dangerous supposed Doctor. Three generations of doctors nurses all seriously Criminally Insane. So everyone get your research done starting with videos like this. Don't be caught off guard for a minute!!! The outside criminals get you hurt and put in hospitals. So they don't get charged with murders they don't kill you. The Inside a hospital has killers ready to murder you to finish you off once your in there. Some doctors are wonderful human beings if they had to catch killers in their hospitals they would have less time to heal people. So patients beware. I caught the criminals who I disowned, disinherited, disassociated with, and revoked every verbal and written contract with them. But more people need to catch the criminals in their families, without being caught catching criminals by their predators, perpetrators, and assailants. Never tell them you caught them. Murder is just another Felony to them. They are over the life terms limits on Felonies already. So they will try to kill anyone catching them at crime. They can't do another day in prison for topping their crime off with a few murders. I wish I had known this in high school. I could have saved 7 lives in my family plus my own.
Gavinough Studios (2 hours ago)
Please write your book somewhere else..
tati12345able (1 day ago)
This video tells me that i m fake but i know this kind of behavior only. Can someone tell me to find out how to be real? Maybe that is why I don’t have friends 😟
Gavinough Studios (2 hours ago)
I know what you mean.. I know this vid is saying I'm fake but I'm not doing it on purpose I don't know how to be genuine in this case.
Marcus Flippen (1 day ago)
God is going to flood this world again. One person who is not fake We're all dead On this Earth
Frances Holbert (1 day ago)
I like this vedio it's so educational and it tells the truth about reality
musa swaliki (1 day ago)
that is hypocrite they is no fake people as u saying it.do u know who is Hypocrite he or she shows something else out but inside is something else. And if he speaks he lies. And if he promises something he lies that's the attitude of hypocrites
Life is beautiful (1 day ago)
OMG It's incredible how the girl that came in my mind combine all of these signs with no exception !!!
Valerei Renfro (2 days ago)
Oh I've known people like this since I was 8 years old & still counting. From my former stepmother, to her relatives, to various people that I've come into contact with over the years! It's been a virtural HELL!
Bella Italia (2 days ago)
i'm sorry but from experience Some Are Very True & Some are Off, If someone has a hard time Focusing or With Concentrating with Conversation or Thinking Does NOT Mean That Certain Person is "Fake" .
L Ryuzaki (2 days ago)
Fake nice people VS Narcissitic Personality Disorder...What's the difference? God, too many of these sound like the narc in my life!
Imyrl0ve 4evr (3 days ago)
What can we do to help the fakers getting real again?
Costin Nitu (3 days ago)
We are all fake people because no one can survive in society by being always honest (see the movie "The invention of lying"). Why? Because we are dual beings with positive and negative thoughts-emotions that if they are constantly exposed it will bring more harm than good. So if you want to survive learn to be fake as much as you can.
Shanis28 B (3 days ago)
You just described 90% of the population. You will be lucky to find a handful people that fall into that other 10 percent over the course of your life..Those people will always be there for you.
jordan (3 days ago)
Everyone is fake from time to time. Certain situations call for it. It’s when you’re fake to exploit or bamboozle someone is when it’s a problem. But for all my social anxiety havers and low self esteemers who are trying to build themselves up fake away my friend. Do whatcha gotta do to survive. Do yourself a favor put yourself around people you like.
Chris Hill (4 days ago)
When a friend takes a dump in your favourite chair.
Robert Frankenburger (4 days ago)
it is kind of funny calling people fake and using that as your excuse for not having many friends. some people are fake but we are just as fake saying they are mostly fake and that is why we have few friends like it doesnt have anything to do with us, that too is fake.
and that is called Narcissism, and it is a personality disorder, that is not been fake, it is narcissism
Bowzsosexiilover07 (4 days ago)
Yup My whole family that I'm around daily
Mei Yen G (5 days ago)
We all want genuine nice people as friends, but are we truly nice and genuine to everyone too?
beenibaby (5 days ago)
This behavior describes certain family members I have, and I wish I could cut them all off.
Pythonaria (5 days ago)
I had a female boss in a temp role I did a couple of years ago. When she met me for the first time she was so gushing it was embarrassing. I soon learned how fake and nasty she was. She went out of her way to belittle everything I did even infront of customers and other staff. I needed the job (I'm a widow and my son has severe health problems) and being over 60, jobs are very hard to find for people my age group. I ended up getting dragged into something I had nothing to do with (it involved another member of staff) and this woman stitched me up. Thankfully the position came to an end but she put in a bad report about me to the agency I worked for - and all the agencies talk to each other. I would appear to be Persona Non Grata because of this woman and the agencies don't even put me forward for jobs I could do standing on my head. These fake people are horrid and spiteful and cause so much damage to other people.
b3j8 (5 days ago)
Gee this sounds like every car salesperson, and loan officer I've ever met! Especially women who use "hun" in their sentences. Fake!
Akshaya Shae (5 days ago)
If I start looking for signs of fakery in every single person I meet I'll be a fake person too .We shouldn't be naive but don't lose the faith in humanity
fgrfish (5 days ago)
How does protecting yourself against fake people make you a fake person yourself? You seem to be a manipulative bitch who's very annoyed that more people will see your real nature thanks to this video!
Shashwat Dahal (5 days ago)
And fake people watched this video to patch their mind
Natalia Pola (6 days ago)
The listening part is a grey area. Some people have ADHD.
Don Cely (6 days ago)
I hate to mention this, but you keep using the possessive "their" rather than the contraction of they are: "they're." When in doubt, sound it out..." they are fake" stands on its own. "Their fake..." doesn't. Their fake what? Accent, mustache, tits? I know this is about reading disingenuous people, not grammar, I'm just sayin.'
Miss mufasra khalid (6 days ago)
goingshort (6 days ago)
Sounds like my sister in law.
Miss mufasra khalid (6 days ago)
Arse Robinson (6 days ago)
They also think they know it all and try to tell you what to do. They try to be in control of what's going on.
smita patel (6 days ago)
I am not good to judge people, this is great lesson for me. Keep posting human relationships or any practical educational video.
Mikasa Ackermann (6 days ago)
Thanks you so much. I finally know myself better that I am officially fake nice people😕
Izzy (7 days ago)
I’m just trying to be social I ain’t tryna do no shady shit. I hope this video doesn’t subconsciously make people less social and depressed to go out.
Steady Ready (7 days ago)
Damm they're everywhere
Helen Robertson (7 days ago)
Their not fake nice your just not their type of person they really want to hang out WITH....
Invoker (7 days ago)
this signs of fake people are mosre closely related to histrionic personality disorder, not narcissist in my opnion
Liliput One (7 days ago)
Most people are fake. 99% of the teenagers are fake, they do not know any better yet. This video comes from such a perspective of righteousness, that it makes me sick. Fake people need compassion, not judgement. And everybody, EVERYBODY has a persona, unless they are Budhha or awakened. So most likely, the people who did this video have also quite a strong ego, and they got very high exploring the weaknesses of others. Personally, righteous people are the worst. Fake people you can spot easily. But the ones who truly believe they are good...those are the ones you truly need to beware, for they are not conscious of themselves.
Toni Shelton (7 days ago)
Very helpful info; I discovered I have a couple of fake friends from your insights, but I don't believe I should dump a friend just because the relationship is found out to be fake. I want to find a way to develop that relationship into an authentic, meaningful one. I see it as having the potential to become a worthwhile relationship! What do you think though?
Lauren Da potato (7 days ago)
Certainly met a few
Ray W Penn Jr (8 days ago)
Yeah but is stock footage real or fake hehe
Ravensonng (8 days ago)
Classic illustration: "But enough about me...Lets talk about you...What do you think about me." lol
marie campbell (8 days ago)
I had a co-worker who fit 6 of these traits. I quit because of her. I don t regret it.
referral madness (8 days ago)
I've been fake nice to people before but it wasn't intentional, I've had friends who had other friends that I didn't know so when I saw that friend around his other friends that I didn't know and he didn't know my other friends sometimes I wouldn't say anything to them because I didn't want to be awkward and after a while it ruined my friendship with that person so I guess that's an issue I have to sort out with my own level of confidence. Also I have another friend who I think is fake I hadn't seen this guy for a year because I went off to university so I tried to message him on whatsaspp multiple times not because I want anything out of him I just wanted to know how he's getting on with life and he completely blanked me , reads the message on whatsapp then doesn't respond and this happened 4 or 5 times :(
Neasia Hill (8 days ago)
This is the truth frfr
Desiree Wmren (8 days ago)
Hell yea i should tag they ass
Michael Moore (8 days ago)
I believe there is good and bad in everybody...Nice people can be complete jerks and complete jerks have been known to display movements of genuine affection. People consider me to be a nice guy but I myself have been known to fake it just to get by the day, that doesn't mean that I would consider myself the most evil person in the universe, it simply means we are human...
Candy Willard (9 days ago)
God I wish I had seen this years ago!!!
Hakim Nuraldin (9 days ago)
This guy's voice and accent makes me want to start drinking.
Cathy Wang (9 days ago)
There is always something wrong with the atmosphere around fake ppl. They are insecure and weak on the inside.
Cathy Wang (9 days ago)
Fake ppl always get busted due to their own weird behaviors over a long term.
Richard Hough (9 days ago)
Drug users and addicts are accomplished liars and fakes.
Majd Alusta (9 days ago)
Here’s a tip: If you are original you will always spot fake ones! And vibes never lie!!!
Sunny Smiles (9 days ago)
It’s best not to ever have a drink w coworkers/Friends (frenemies) you don’t trust. Listen to your gut. If fake people ask to spend time w you, you can be sure it is because they want information from you or something from you. They are manipulative users. Beware!! Also if they consistently take forever to answer your phone calls or texts, you can be 100% sure your relationship is unimportant and very low priority, contrary to what they tell you. With “friends” like this, who needs enemies?
Smileygirl Kimmie (9 days ago)
Thank you for sharing! It makes my heart hurt to hear all of these attributes... I realize there are too many people in my life that are fake nice. 😔😒
Christian Martinez (9 days ago)
How is that fake
Colleen (10 days ago)
They dont need to even open their mouths, i read them as theyre approaching me, i smile HUGE give back even more than theyre attempting to serve me & delightfully step them off
Trulyadoreu720 (10 days ago)
Damn I'm Fake😂🤣😂🤣
Evil.xl'll (10 days ago)
I have a niece I love her but Oh my God!!!! She is very popular, has lots of friends, popular in facebook everywhere, but she is a horrible person to live day by day, she doesn't care about anyone, she is very cold and selfish, she looks very nice person but when you know closely you see the reality
Carissa Biddle (11 days ago)
exactly telling everybody business and trying to look like their better than their other friends. If you talking about your friends to me you definitely talking about me to your friends. Sometimes you have to know people for who they are and treat them accordingly
AngelaC BB (11 days ago)
I work with a few people who have most of these behaviors lol!
Karen Berry (11 days ago)
This video described my son's current girlfriend to the bone Wow
Jay Bee (11 days ago)
I let ppl know that I'm only interested in genuine ppl no fakes are allowed in I have limits a boundaries
David Viveros (11 days ago)
Now i feel fake lol.i like to pay for people since i get good pay and kind of brag to friens but my intention is to tell them how i got their so they can also try harder and make what i make.
Marie Flower (11 days ago)
Im nice :)
Just Saying (11 days ago)
All of us are fake... were all fated to pretend that's the reality.. coz accdg. To bible, humankinds are proud and boastful.
Are Dee (11 days ago)
They'll throw you under the bus whenever there's an opportunity. Literally.
Nena Duncan (11 days ago)
Well shit!! I'm surrounded by fakes....
Militant AceColleti (12 days ago)
"Fake Nice" People A.K.A Covert Narcassitism.😫🙄
Michael Gregory (12 days ago)
To your own self be true, and it must follow like the night follows the day, you can not then be false to any man... We Shakespeare.
Sarah Scott (12 days ago)
Omg i’m fake
Mary LAB (12 days ago)
also, you forgot to mention that they always accuse you for not being there for them, although you do your best to please them and they betray you every single time...
Mary LAB (12 days ago)
so true, so freackin' true... :,(
Going Up (12 days ago)
Free pass to kill fake ppl would be Nice
Gabe L (12 days ago)
THE most obnoxious twats ... people that only speak or acknowledge you, IF you speak to them, FIRST. I spit on their graves ! Yuk !
Brenda Brock (12 days ago)
Co-workers and my landlord. I trust my kitty that's it. My landlord doesn't listen. My coworker listen to stab you in the back. I avoid People like the plague. People suck!
Tara Keebler (12 days ago)
Yeah these behaviors are the MAJORITY of very rude people I unfortunately met!
Tara Keebler (12 days ago)
I'm REAL & I have to admit it was always about me, but that was because I was hurt so badly & NOT ever allowed to say what happened to me by very mean people who made me feel that bad that I wanted to die because they said that it never happened & I took it to heart &......that devastatingly killed me emotionally......NEVER being able to get it out.......only repeating myself over & over & over...... . Well just ask Green Day! Ummmm Tom Petty died!
Tara Keebler (12 days ago)
+Tara Keebler I always talked about the misfortune of others because I happened to be misfortune & would want to help out! But manipulating people.....possibly a church going person may completetly ignore your situation & talk about a more misfortunate one to avoid you entirely........they ignore a needy person who really needs help!
Tara Keebler (12 days ago)
A person who constantly attention & approval is very insecure & number one reason of insecurity is being abused! It could be that they're a control freak which is opposite of a victim who was taught to be insecure by their abuser!
SusanBrooklyn (12 days ago)
The worst is when it's your family that are fake but you grew up thinking they were genuine.
Joy Kaiza828 (13 days ago)
I was raised by narcissistic parents & in a abusive,shit talking neighborhood & I picked up these toxic traits from observing everything in my environment.I was suicidal,I had low self esteem.I hated my life & myself so I left home when I was 15.I improved on my behavior & learnt so much about my mental health that I never knew existed.I had never heard of anxiety or depression before.And I never would have never known that most my life I was suffering from panic attacks,I wasn't just being a drama queen.But thanks to my best friend & her family they gave me the chance I needed to sort myself out.They showed me what unconditional love is & I love them so much.I was also a drug addict & alcoholic well we all were.But as soon as my best friend fell pregnant with my god daughter who's 6 now.I thought I needed to change & to be an example for my best friend & my future God child.I was using heavily & my best friend was doing what I was doing while being pregnant.I tried to stop her & show her it was bad but I can't control her.But I could show her,after my 16th birthday I went to rehab.My best friend was still pregnant.I couldn't believe that all the things I had known weren't true.Things I thought to be okay weren't & all the knowledge I learnt I wish I had known earlier in age & I had wished more people I knew,knew about it to.I voluntarily went on for another intake,so I doubled my time in Rehab. The time i spent there I completed sober.Once I had I went off to live on my own,I flatted.I made some horrible decisions that only the power of God could heal.And when I turned 17 he did,some sisters reached out to me & opened my eyes & my heart to another side of life I had never seen before.I lived by the teachings of the church to know God is real & I believe in the faith of Jesus Christ that he is our savior. No one is perfect only he is. After I turned 18 I went back to study & I joined an Academy course.It was so much fun & hard & really gave me the training I needed to strengthen & discipline my mind.It was really hard core,I was apart of the only all female team group ever to exist there.At the end our entire platoon won almost all trophys (except 1) & the March out. And also the tug of war. I knew people inside who were so hard & tough in the streets but couldn't handle LSV (that's what the academy was called) I was so proud.After that I was 19 I decided to move bk in with my parents & try to rebuild my relationship with them,help them out & heal our broken family.Its been 4 yrs & we've made alot of progress,it's been a rough journey.My parents are still the same but we have healed some wound scars.I just wanted us to leave on good terms before I find a place I can call home & never to bother them again. I just wanted us to make some good memories before they die because honestly I don't have that many.Most memory's I have of them are destructive & hurtful.But on this life quest of mine I have learned to accept things I can't control & to be happy & grateful even in times are completely dark. I finally have a place of my own with people i love & love me. But I got to confess I am fake. Well I was,well I've done these things & I'm trying to stop,I have alot.Im drug free now have been for 3yrs. I smoke weed only on my birthdays & some day my mother's death day. I used to seek council from those closests to me about everyone that used to come to me for advice about there problems for a 2nd opinion. But sometimes I would tell people what I said about them & who to. Because Ive had my confidence in trust broken & now I've been training myself to speak confidentially.Because I want to be a Social worker & help people,youth offenders or drug addicts like me.Who have been homeless & jobless before. I often don't answer calls or messages from people that often pressure me to drink or make me feel bad for the last time I said no. I also missed large events such as 21st & family reunions.Because I'm dealing with health issues like Thyroid disease,and I was also depressed.I was a 22 yr old living at home with there parents.No job. That time I was volunteering at a thrift store.And my family always gave me a hard time,They made me feel ugly & useless & I just didn't need that in front of my extended family. I used to try & please people.Byt it all hust leads to dissapointment.Now I don't have a problem disappointing people.I don't need validation.I appreciate the people in my life & i make an effort to make sure they know they are loved & cared for healthy & emotionally. Sometimes I talk about myself to much,but that's because I hope to inspire people not impress them.Plus I've learnt from gossiping & shit talkers that if you want to talk about someone talk about yourself or your interests or dreams or goals. And child the lies omg,sometimes I don't know wtf came over me. Why,why indeed.But after calling out & realizing what I was doing to myself mainly.I now think about the consequences & how this could effect me or those around me.I still lie like how much I spend.But I don't lie about others,but I had a real issue lieing on myself.Now I really don't care,I'm not ashamed or embarrassed to be openly honest,I practice being truthful by being truthful to myself & to others without being hurtful or out of spite. If you have to lie to people to be liked than your around the world people. So yes I was or am a fake person.I have the courage to admit,sometimes you gotta admit your own faults in order to take actions to solutions.If you can't be real about yourself than you don't have the right to tell people who they are,if you first can't first tell who you are.On this road to finding myself I've learnt that we all have similar flaws but only the few will admit to them & only the best will do something about it. Love & light.
Selena Robinson (13 days ago)
Joy Kaiza828 My goodness. . .you can write a book. . .
Larrecia Shealey (13 days ago)
Fake people I deal with are those who invite me to a party and they give me the wrong address on purpose if you don't want me to come then just tell me that you don't want me to come
Angelo (13 days ago)
This People tryed not to change the system on a Justicfull way or a Right way! They desiered the things of other people! And didnt Respect the Life of other People! They are not trying to establish a better World! They are trying to take control and to establish there own kingdom which is not based on Justice or the Right way and they even dont have God on there Side! This are Evil People without Justice and its a Evil Empire they are working on!
Isabel Olsson (13 days ago)
I was married to one. 100%rigt
Thorlianna6 (13 days ago)
If someone keeps canceling on you it’s possible they have anxiety or depression, too
Alwyn Maguire (13 days ago)
Think I'd better get a personality make over. I always wondered Why I never had any friends. I must be damn fake. Damn damn.
Jahmina Stephens (13 days ago)
My mother in law and sisters in law
KrustyDanmakuDude (13 days ago)
"I found you, *FAKER* !!!!"
rafael trella (13 days ago)
All those almost 900 dislikes are fake people and it hurt them lmao!
Infires men (13 days ago)
I should have watch this.. several weeks ago
59995558 (13 days ago)
Eye opener. Spent my life blaming myself trying to figure out what I am doing wrong. Hard to believe that these are actually true, even with so called "family".
Rocky V1 (13 days ago)
All it takes is a phone call ..
Starry Night (14 days ago)
The worst part is that this type of personality is becoming popularized by mainstream media. They're not shallow and self-absorbed they're just SASSY. That type of thing =__=

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