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Quick Story about my GF dad.
Invited to dinner. Regular conversation. 2nd dish he stops and starts saying. "You're welcome but there are 3things i hate. First, Drugs. Second, Booze. Third: Guys beating Women, cause as well i kill the pork on january, i Will kill U. Aaaah the italian way...now we great friends and im gonna marry his daughter on December. LOL
Walk in, stand in front of them, do some bioenergetic exercises (the bow).
Here comes the most important part: look the fsther in the eyes, and while still keeping eye contact you let out a belly roar that would scare the devil himself
Well Ima play my card, I'm a 6'5 red head marine that shoots and hunts, and as a part time job I repair, fix, build and ride custom motorcycles and I'm going to be meeting my girlfriends vegan, animal activist parents who are against the military for the first time since our 8 month relationship, oh and I'm this girls first boyfriend soooo..... any tips ??
Lol, just be a respectable man; however demand respect. Respect one's household, but don't be a frail mouse. Stand Up straight, look them in the eye, answer questions, but ask them back. Engage them in adult conversation. And when the smoke clears:Dont give a fuck, just a good human being. If they don't like you, it's their problem.
so sir, i'm the one that's been planning to marry your daughter all these while
daughter: yes dad, he is the one
dad: I don't see anyone, where is he.
daughter: he's right here by my side dad
dad: I think something in my eyes. There is a mad man by your side.
Question: I've lost too many battles and left too many things incompleted in my life. I lost time.. so who I am? Should I imagine a better me or just focus on my best sides when I am in front of these people?
+Gianfranco T For sure. If you want to have any kind of impression on anyone else, you first have to be a stronger version of yourself. Definitely start your journey on becoming the strongest version of yourself as soon as possible and when you have developed enough confidence and you feel that you're in a strong position to go for it, then go for it. However be aware that becoming the strongest version of yourself should be your main focus as you're not doing it to impress anyone else; You're doing it for yourself. All the rewards, recognition, or popularity you receive on your road to success are just a byproduct of what you chose to do, so keep growing stronger my friend. Good luck to you.
he says things like "let em (her parents) know who you really are!!" so here's my question.. I don't like who I am in this moment and what I did so far.. maybe I should just restart and rebuilt my confidence by reaching my goals in my university career.
I agree so much with the part of clearing your mind. One day i was working on something and I couldn't remember the last name of someone, I really needed the last name of that guy and I spent an hour trying to remember and i failed. After 2 days while I was doing my daily meditation, out the blue that guys last name came into my mind like lightning and I wasn't even thinking about that situation at all. The brain is weird, lol.
"It doesn't matter what you do, it's who you are," -Elliott Hulse.
This is the honest truth. Too often in this busy world we become in the habit of focusing on what we can do. If we focus on who we can be, then we will naturally acquire the correct result for our circumstance.
With less anxiety and more calmness we can be ourselves. No need to worry about what some guy thinks. Just be yourself dude because that's the best you can be. No need to worry about what to do.
+wizINFINITE it's been a long time since I posted that, but to reiterate...I believe I was trying to say we should focus on our attitude that precedes an action rather than the action itself. If your head and heart are in the right place, then how are you going to do something that defines you as something you're not? This is just BEing yourself and letting that emanate from you rather than focusing on doing things that would be characteristic of something you are not.
The father is looking for an individual, and he is so afraid that you will be just another clone. Talk about things that matter, AND KNOW SOMETHING ABOUT THEM! Be an expert in something, and be ready to defend your position on your side of the argument. Show good sense, and good judgement, and smile at his daughter a lot.
+Orlando Flores Change your after-shave, or re-introduce yourself to a razor, or soap and water, OR trade in your 20 year old rust bucket for a decent car. There must be a reason they dislike you. Work on it.
Do you a bioenergetics wwarm out routine infront of him before shaking his hand. The one that starts with your walking on the spot shaking your arms and rolling your eyes back to which then ends in you jumping up and down yelling.
Being in the present when interacting with someone makes the interaction creative and almost artistic in a way because you don't know what's subject is going to naturally pop up and be explored in the moment.
You know what, dude? I am getting sick and tired from all of these inepts asking others to think and act for themselves. Then there is no difference than being a corporatist robot executing each order.
More than once I wanted to leave a message, though I considered the best course of action to struggle alone with my own difficulties and even though it may be more struggling than figuring out a quicker course of action it is far better because it is I who is in charge of solving it.
Everyone is different, acts and reacts differently therefore one thing that goes for one person most definitely is not going to work for another.
People, dudes and dudettes, take fucking responsibility for your own lives and stop throwing guilt on others! Accept failures and learn from them, it is the only way that life is going to get better, not being served help on a silver platter each time difficulty arises.
Life is beautiful the way it is, without comparing it to others'! Everyone's life is!
The philosophy for impressing parents is pretty much the same as impressing a group of your friend's friends you just met. Don't fake a persona or try to do too much(for example, don't just say things that you think other people like to hear because most of the time when you're in a group, at least one person is probably more socially savvy than you are and he's going to know that you're being a faker, and once you lose one person in a group, you basically lose the entire group).
Love her parets inconditionally knowing that they are now close to you through her. Trying to impress is not a healthy outlook. Rather, take care of them patiently how you may have to do in 30 years when they have alzhaimer's. Realize how anxious they may be to impress you!
Super quick tip here but make sure the daughter is standing next to you when you are introduced to him. Also try and get her to smile and hold you because then he will start associating you with his daughter's happiness. Be as natural as possible and let her do most of the talking without really giving too much of yourself away. Try to not let him see you but see you through his daughter's eyes, that is the most important thing. Ultimately all he wants to know is that you are treating her well so she needs to make sure he knows you are a positive impact on her life BUT you can't do the sell yourself, it's all gotta come through her.
I have to disagree with Eliot on this one I say when u meet his strict religious father u have to show dominance. Don't talk let him approach u. Then u drop ur wallet and let the TROJAN MAGNUM condoms fall out look at him straigh in the eye and say mmmmm yeaaaa then if his daughter is there smile at her look back at him and say mmmm
Most so-called “free online dating sites” or “freedatingsites” aren’t actually free. Normally what the sites offer is a free trial period of say three days, or the opportunity to create a free profile. If you have a profile other members can see it and contact you. Usually this includes the ability to send you messages. Some sites will then allow you to see the content of those messages, others won’t. The one thing you can’t do though is reply. This means that unless the person contacting you sends you a phone number, or email address (some sites automatically remove these) you won’t be able to contact them until you pay for your membership.